Daily Reflections

October 20, 2011
The Prince of PeacE who causes Division


I am often asked by a Catholic young man or woman whether it would be alright to marry a non-Catholic partner. I know several couples who live a harmonious married life even though they belong to different Christian denominations. But, to be honest, these cases are rare.

I cannot forget Scott Hahn’s book, Rome Sweet Home. He and his wife had taken academic degrees in theology and were very active in their ministry as Evangelicals. But Scott began to question Protestantism and felt attracted to Catholicism; he finally converted and became a devout Catholic. His wife followed later but before she converted their marriage nearly broke up.

“Days and weeks would pass without us sharing anything spiritual,” he writes. “As my spiritual life surged forward, my marriage tumbled backward… Most attempts to deal forthrightly with our differences would end in grief and frustration.”

After Mrs. Hahn’s conversion to the Catholic Church, most of their former Evangelical friends broke away from them.

This is just one example that illustrates Jesus’ words in today’s Gospel. While working in one parish, I witnessed the pain of parents whose son or daughter joined another Christian group or religion. The division can be even worse when a married couple belongs to a completely different faith.

St. Francis of Assisi met strong resistance from his father when he decided to live a life of poverty. Some young people who answer God’s call to the religious life often find strong resistance from their parents. Yes, a decision for Christ and His values can cause division. Jesus, the “Prince of Peace,” surely came to bring peace. Yet, since conformity, compromise and popularity are not accepted values by Christ, our loyalty to Jesus’ Word can cause the loss of friendship and lead to quarrels and even ostracism. Do we have the strength to face such tensions? Fr. Rudy Horst, SVD

Reflection Question:

Am I afraid of division or rejection and so compromise when it comes to Christ’s teaching and values?


Lord, so many times I was torn between following Your Word and upholding Your values, and following what friends and family member say and expect. Inflame me with the fire of the Holy Spirit to remain always loyal to You!

St. Martha, pray for us.